A very lovely and well-adjusted looking old lady who is a relationship expert blew my mind away.
She said the following which I have slightly embellished because I could not catch everything she said:
“A lover must be kind and generous so that his/her partner would always give and love without thinking or any reservation. A cunning or tight fisted man is never a good lover. He is usually a liar and Casanova”
Now my question is this; should women beg their partners for money to maintain themselves and look good for their men to appreciate and stop straying?
Safe for changes in society, traditionally and religiously men are supposed to provide for and maintain their wives and partners. However, some men despite being very loaded do not provide for or give to their wives and partners or even themselves and many would rather spend on other women in order to impress them and get that temporary pleasure that can cause heartbreaks. Some women these days are catching up.
Is it then right for a man to wait for his wife, girl friend or partner to ask for maintenance money before they provide such maintenance, literally begging in some cases?
It is also traditionally expected that a woman should look after her husband and children. Is it OK for a woman to wait for her husband or partner to ask for food and other things that make the family life complete before she plays her role? I am a very traditional woman and therefore believe that unless the man enjoys cooking, it is my duty to cook and feed my family and my kitchen remains out of bounds unless I say you can go there.
Of course in many homes these days’ women earn more than their partners and readily provide for the family without grumbling and often to the fear of some of their many insecure partners who feel that unless they run the women mad by behaving badly they may begin to feel like God and ruin their lives or status in society.
I am still thinking about what this beautiful old lady said.